The quicker we understand this, the less hard we would be on ourselves when we make mistakes or etiquette boo-boos.
The key to understanding of learning to how to become a lady is this: Learn through reading, understanding, imitation, acting and get over your blunders as soon as possible.
Many women tell me they often feel fake, unnatural when they try to develop ladylike behaviour. Their friends also are unused to them, often commenting that they have become too formal.
When change happens, you’ll often feel like everything is thrown off balance. You feel uncertain, may feel nervous. That is simply the process of finding a new balance. Tweak it, adjust and you’ll find the right balance as you change sooner than you think.